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Scholarship Opportunity

by Dave
Thursday, June 25, 2009

Just got this from a friend:

"I still have scholarship $ for a pitcher if you know anyone who hasn't signed yet.

I still have a rather large scholarship available for a pitcher who is a 2009 grad or transfer with release or juco/CC player if anyone is still looking for a school.   Depending upon academics (gpa/test scores), I may be able to cover a significant portion of our tuition, which is $33,000.   Our health sciences program is extremely strong -- nursing, nuclear med, respiratory therapy, physical therapy, athletic training.   We are a D2 school in WV, located 1 mile from Ohio, and 10 miles from PA.   I am looking for solid prospect who can come in and compete for a spot in the rotation. Here is our our web address: www.wju.edu

If interested, please email bvasko@wju.edu

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For Love Of The Game

by Dave
Tuesday, June 23, 2009

There's a bunch of girls heading to recruiting combines and showcase tournaments, or otherwise stressing out over their college softball prospects right this very moment.   They'll be poked and prodded, measured and remeasured.   They'll get great hits, strikeout, look good, look really bad, make great plays and throws, and completely fall apart on routine flys and grounders.   Some few will impress coaches from great programs.   Some will have lines drawn through their names.   And you know what?   None of this matters!   Why?   Because they'll still be just playing softball.

That's right.   My message to all the girls with high aspirations on the diamond this week, next, and the one after that is to remember what you are doing.   You're just playing softball.   I know it is stressful to think that if you botch this pop-up coming at you right now, the coach for whom you really, really want to play might form some very bad opinions about you.   I know that you feel you really must get at least one hit against this pitcher.   I know you want to get a great jump as you attempt to steal this base.   I think we all know all about the stress you are about to go through.   But if it is meant to be, it will be.

Instead of staying awake late tonight because that coach you have been e-mailing is going to be watching your game tomorrow against the Shamrocks or whomever, try thinking about what it was like to play this game when you were 8, 10, 12 years old.   There was no big deal about who was watching you then.   All that mattered was you were going to pitch or catch and get some at bats.   You were going to feel the wind whip through your batting helmet as you raced around the bases.   You were gonna make some great plays in the field.   You were gonna throw out some runners.   You were gonna strike out some batters.   You were gonna spend time with your friends.   You were gonna have fun.   That's why you play this game to begin with, to have fun.   It is fun.   It is great fun.

So as you get into bed tonight, as you climb into the car tomorrow, as you work your way towards the fields, as you stand there waiting for your turn to get up and impress, what I want you to think about is how much fun this game is and how much fun it has been for years.   Don't focus on anything mechanical.   Don't worry or stress out over anything you have been working on for the past 6 months or 6 years.   Don't gfet into any heavy visualization exercises.   Instead, think of this as just another game day.   Think of this as yet another in a long line of experiences.

The truth is you play better when you are relaxed.   You play better when you are having fun.   When you get up to bat and you are focused on the fun of hitting the ball, you hit better.   When you just love the feel of running around the bases, you run better.   When you go all out to catch a line drive simply because going all out and catching a line drive happens to be about the most fun thing in the world, you make great plays.   When you just love the way making a great throw feels, you make great throws.

You have been working just about your whole life to be a really great player.  
You have fielded tens of thousands of grounders and flys.   You have taken more swings of the bat than a human has capacity to count.   You've done speed and agility to the point that it takes you months to improve your times on courses by even a hundredth of a second.   You have built muscle memory to the point that your brain cannot remember anymore.   You've done what you can and there is no more time for study.   Now it is time to put a cap on all that work by letting it hang out.

If you weren't good, you wouldn't be going to these events.   There are a ton of girls who you have passed by over the years.   Still, there are a ton of girls who may be better than you for whatever reason.   It doesn't matter.   All that matters is you do what you can and do what you want to do, play ball.   Prep time is over and now all there is to do is play the game you have been playing since you were allowed to play it.   Just play ball.   It is only just softball and you do know how to play it.

Bottom line is, this is all about love of the game.   If you didn't love it, you wouldn't play it.   If you didn't love it, you wouldn't want to continue playing it into college.   If you didn't love playing this game, you wouldn't be stressed right now about your college prospects.   You would just go and relax because nothing you did would ever matter.   Your love of the game is the reason you are stressed but stress has nothing to do with playing the way you know how to play.   So go out there, get dirty, dive around a little, drive the ball, run cause its fun to run, throw cause its fun to throw, and just have a blast.

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Thor, The Viking Bandit - index page

by Dave
Monday, June 22, 2009

I was contacted by the Chicago Bandits of National Pro Fastpitch (NPF) and handed the unique opportunity to conduct an interview with Kristina Thorson ("Thor"), their star pitcher.   In addition to leading the Bandits to the NPF championship last year, Kristina pitched in the WCWS three times for Cal, finishing runner-up twice, and was Gatorade player of the year in the state of Washington her senior year of high school.

As you will see from her answers, she is a very intelligent, thoughtful person whose wisdom is very informative for those of us who are just starting our kids out in the game, those who have played and/or coached for years, and those players who are considering college prospects or more.   I had high hopes for this interview but those hopes were easily surpassed, mostly thanks to Kristina's thoughtful responses to my questions.   I worked pretty hard to develop questions which would provide affirmations or denials of many of the preconceptions I know I had and assume others have as well.   I hope I asked a lot of the questions you would ask.

It is always instructive for parents to get the real thoughts of their children.   But most of us struggle to get answers to questions like "what happened today at school" or "how did you play at your game?"   We cannot ever hope to learn their real thoughts on a host of issues like "do you want to continue playing softball, travel softball," "what do you want to do when you go to college," or "do you want to continue pitching, catching, playing center?"   Seeing the world through the eyes of someone who has played youth, high school, college, and professional ball while excelling academically and pursuing other related and unrelated activities, gives us all a little insight into the world our children occupy or will occupy and lets us know what it takes to make it on a bigger stage.

What's more, my entire reason for getting my kids involved with any sport at all had to do with the real world lessons learned by being an athlete, a member of a team, a person who has to make choices about how to allocate their time.   Kristina affirmed that for me.   But while I understand that sports need to be fun for kids, I think that sometimes I can fall victim to the "if you want to play at this level, then it has to be more than just fun" mentality which pervades youth sports even at the 8U level.   Kristina's perspective reminded me that the reason I wanted to be a major league ballplayer at the age of 9 had to do with the fun of the game more than the "rewards of accomplishing something difficult via hard work and dedication."

As I crafted my questions, I realized I had written 5 pages before I even scratched the surface.   As a result, this work is rather large.   I have published it in 4 parts which I hope are logical.   I provide this index page mostly because the order of postings on a blog format essentially puts everything backwards.   Questions are in italics and responses beneath in normal type, indented.   Without any further ado, here are links to the four parts of the interview:
  • Part 1 - rec play through high school.

  • Part 2 - experiences as a college player

  • Part 3 - experiences as a professional pitcher

  • Part 4 - future including high school coach, private pitching instructor, and some longer-term possibilities
In conclusion, I wish to extend my thanks to the Chicago Bandits organization, Andrew Phillips, Director of Media Relations, and most especially to Thor, herself.

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